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Showing posts with label Eating disorders. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Eating disorders. Show all posts

Thursday, 18 October 2012

Misogynistic Advertising Walk of Shame: It's Boots. Again

Posted on 14:23 by Unknown

I hate the Boots Here Come the Girls ads. I think they are misogynistic twaddle and glorify the objectification of women's bodies, the fetishisation of "girls" and construct women as shallow, narcissists with serious addiction problems [notably shopping which can be self-destructive when compulsive]. I try not to let the kids watch ads so we record things before we watch them. Unfortunately, Boots has now taken to advertising before the Kids Club movie at Vue Cinema. And, they have surpassed themselves with the misogyny in their new campaign, although not with creativity since they have liberally "borrowed" from Galaxy's "women have to hide chocolate bars around the house so no one knows they eat chocolate" twaddle. 

Boots' pre-movie Here Come the Girls ad now features a woman staring with glee into a locked box full of chocolate bars. As I said with the Galaxy ads, 
Hiding food isn't the sign of a woman with a healthy relationship to food. Its quite a serious red flag for eating disorders. This ad simply fetishises eating disorders as something that all women should aspire too. ... I turn off the TV every time I see this ad because it makes me sad and utterly fucked off with a society that treats women eating as a social taboo.
The old Boots ads are bad enough. They feature women with compulsive behaviour problems and women trapped in marriages with men who are selfish and rude. They reinforce the idea that women's bodies are inherently ugly and that we can not be seen in public without covering ourselves in make-up and expensive skin creams, all the while getting our daily vitamin intake from pills whilst we stop eating to desperately lose that extra 10 pounds so we won't be fat too. But, now, we are not only ugly and fat, we are being encouraged to fetishise chocolate. No doubt, so that we will then be back at Boots buying weight loss products. The entire campaign is degrading to women. 

And, don't get me started on the word "girls". God forbid we get to be strong, intelligent, resourceful, and kind women with real needs and desires. Nope, we get to be infantilised and demeaned whilst hiding chocolate in locked boxes.


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Posted in Eating disorders, fashion-beauty complex, Harmful Cultural Practises, Misogynistic Advertising Walk of Shame, Objectification of Women, Patriarchal Fuckability Test, Sexist Advertising | No comments

Thursday, 4 October 2012

Cadbury Has Officially Jumped the Shark

Posted on 08:18 by Unknown

They now make chocolate for ladeez. Because, apparently, we are all too fat and no longer make the cut for the Patriarchal Fuckability Test. I would have liked to know this before I bought myself a Crunchie this morning. I like Crunchies. I did not know that I had to have a penis to eat one. I have checked on the wrapping and it doesn't say I need a penis. But, now, there is a chocolate bar just for me. Because I have a vagina. It's called Crispello [and whoever thought that up really needs a career change].

Although, come to think of it, I'm sure Weight Watchers* already market chocolate bars for fat women. It's part of their eat nothing but eggs and carrots but then treat yourself to a tiny piece of chocolate that is smaller than Halloween treats. The Weight Watchers chocolate bars are probably twice the price of a Crispello but at least they don't have a stupid name.


I would totally suggest everyone with a vagina run right now and buy themselves one but it's tea time. Probably some pasta would be better. **



* I can't be too mean to Weight Watchers. They were very helpful when I had PND. But, mostly, they prey on women's insecurities and create diets that only 10% of women manage to sustain long-term. Possibly, I could have gotten the same help from a PND support group and saved myself a shitload of money but I was in denial. It happens.


** I await with glee for the advertising campaign for Crispello. I suspect I will get hours of fun lambasting it for the Misogynistic Advertising Walk of Shame


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Posted in #EverydaySexism, Eating disorders, feminism, Gender Stereotyping, Misogyny, Patriarchal Conformity, Patriarchal Fuckability Test, War on Women | No comments

Monday, 17 September 2012

Misogynistic Advertising Walk of Shame: Vagenda Knocks Them Down

Posted on 10:56 by Unknown


These images are taken from a blogpost on Vagenda. I think they've brilliantly deconstructed the misogyny. But, sometimes, you just need to look at the images a second time to fully understand the WTF?  bit. [Or, a third time in this case].*

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*Between, Kookai definitely don't sell yogurt. I googled just in case there were two companies called Kookai. There aren't.
**Surely, PETA should be starting a campaign against French Connection now. That way, we can admire the misogyny squared.
*** Pot Noodle: The Lynx Effect of Food. Only eat them if you have a penis and are stupid****


****Not everyone with a penis is stupid so please don't bother posting that level of nincompoopery as a comment.
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Posted in #EverydaySexism, Eating disorders, fashion-beauty complex, Harmful Cultural Practises, Misogynistic Advertising Walk of Shame, Misogyny, Patriarchal Conformity, Sexist Advertising, War on Women | No comments

Tuesday, 28 August 2012

Dearest Vagina, Once Again I have Failed You.

Posted on 08:33 by Unknown

Dearest Vagina,

Once again I have failed you. I have previous form for neglecting you. I neither shave you nor vajazzle you. I refused to purchase the completely bizarre "smoothethegroove" in order to make you look more fuckable to men who are stupid. Unfortunately, and I think this goes without saying, I will also not be buying the 18 Again cream which is supposed to make you "tighter" and resemble the vagina of a virgin. It doesn't matter if the cream is made of the natural ingredients of "gold dust, aloe vera, almond and pomegranate". You will not experience the pleasure of the cream anywhere near you. 

Weirdly, I like you just the way you are: having birthed two children. I don't want to "feel like a virgin" either. I like being me: a woman whose body has changed and developed through age and experience. I know this means I will continue to fail the Patriarchal Fuckability Test. But, really, when have I actually passed the PFT? And, who really wants to have sex with a man who is only aroused by the anorexic body of an only-just-not-quite-a-teenager? An adult male who dates 18 year olds has some serious psycho-sexual issues they need to deal with. Who really wants to have sex with someone like that? Who wants to be with a man who only wants to marry a virgin?

So, you will remain unshaven and unvajazzled and without your own special wardrobe or creams. You will just have to remain you. After all, isn't that the point of every Disney Princess movie ever? Or, something like that. I'm sure.

SGM
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Posted in #waronwomen, Childbirth, Eating disorders, fashion-beauty complex, Harmful Cultural Practises, Misogyny, Objectification of Women, Patriarchal Fuckability Test, Slut-Shaming, Vagina | No comments

Friday, 24 August 2012

Jezebel Remembers It's a Feminist Organisation

Posted on 02:26 by Unknown
I was complaining about Jezebel's bizarre understanding of feminism the other day. I was in a full-on righteous rage about their inability to understand the political and cultural context of the so-called sex entertainment industry. I questioned their feminist credentials. Well, actually, I rubbished them. Then they published Listen Up Ladies, Everything Real Men Think Is Wrong With You which is a fucking brilliant feminist anthem.

These are some of my favourite highlights:

First of all, I am neither an empty man-socket nor a fucking venus flytrap. I am not looking to "attract a man." I am just trying to do my stuff and then maybe meet a person who likes me because I am also a person. I didn't want to get all serious right off the bat, BUT SORRY: Women's grueling, lifelong, losing battle to transform themselves into magical, flawless creatures with Disney hair and 15-inch waists and massive ham-lips is not for the benefit of women. And when men say that they "love to see the woman underneath the makeup," they're not saying they want to see your leg stubble and greasy bangs—they're saying they want you to be better at hiding your maintenance routine. Because the maintenance spoils the fantasy.
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First of all. I find it hard to believe that Shaun can even tell the difference between a salon manicure and an at-home manicure, unless his girlfriend has some sort of tremor-inducing palsy, or multitasks by combining nail maintenance with trampoline practice. Which means this whole thing is just about signaling—Shaun wants to be with the kind of woman who gets her nails done at a salon. Nevermind the fact that going out to get your nails done can eat up several hours a week (I presume he also wants his girlfriend to have a career and a social life and to take care of her family and do her taxes and maintain her home and feed herself and possibly sleep once in a while), and can cost hundreds of dollars a month (I also presume Shaun is not footing the bill).
...
Also, women: If you are single, it is not because your fake eyelashes are too bushy or Kevin doesn't like cucumber lotion. This shit is an oppressive waste of your time. Here's my new beauty tip for everyone on earth: Go read a book or something.

Jezebel can be freaking hilarious when they're ranting. They just need to dump the celeb shit and rant more.
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Posted in Eating disorders, fashion-beauty complex, feminism, hyper-sexuality, Misogyny, Objectification of Women, Patriarchal Conformity, sex entertainment industry | No comments

Wednesday, 8 August 2012

The Official Magnetic List of Acceptable Boy and Girl Words

Posted on 00:48 by Unknown

Because gender stereotyping and hatred of women is just so fucking funny. God forbid girls like helicopters and aeroplanes. Probably their vaginas would dry up. Or something equally tedious. And, I do love the inclusion of sweets, sherbert, candy, ice cream and chocolate on the girls list whilst the boys only get sweets. Setting up our girls for a life time of eating disorders, self-loathing and low self-confidence. That way they will spend time failing to meet the heinous Patriarchal Fuckability Test rather than kick-starting the Revolution.

 Just for once I'd like to see this shit written about in terms of the emotional and psychological abuse of children.


This came via A Girl's Guide to Taking Over the World on Facebook. They are pretty awesome and are well worth following.
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