So, Chris Butt went whining to the press because the NCT wouldn't let him into a women-only breastfeeding support group. Here's the thing, many women wouldn't care about having a male midwife. Many women wouldn't care about have a man in a breastfeeding support group. But, these women do. They joined a women-only group for a reason. We don't need to interrogate each of them to decide which of them has a Patriarchy-approved reason for choosing a woman-only group. They did. Now, their choices need to be respected. It's not like the NCT banned him from all their groups; just the woman-only one. And, yeah, as a midwife, he will get to see lots of women naked but these specific women don't want him too. So, why should his desire to be in a women-only group trump the desire of these women to access support in a women-only environment?
Frankly, I can't think of anyone I'd rather not have deliver my baby than a man who doesn't get the need for women-only support groups. By putting his selfish desire above the wishes of a group of women who aren't even his patients, Butt is demonstrating a distinct lack of empathy which I've always thought was necessary in the medical profession. Does Butt not understand that a large percentage of domestic violence starts during pregnancy? That these women-only groups are sometimes the *only* place a woman has to access support without the violent partner being involved? What about women who aren't allowed to be in the presence of men they aren't related to? Shouldn't those women be able to access support too? Or, victims of sexualised violence who feel uncomfortable around men? Thankfully, the NCT said no but we shouldn't even be having these discussions. There is nothing wrong with women-only groups. The fact that some men think there is says more about male privilege than it does about anything else.
And, doesn't it strike anyone else as just a little bit creepy that this man is demanding the right to access a women-only breastfeeding group, even though, the NCT had offered him an alternative group that men could attend. I mean, why?
* If anyone has a copy I could view, I would be extremely grateful.
- Chris Butt, 30, has been refused entry to sessions because women are 'sensitive to men being present.
He is one of only 132 male midwives out of 20,000 in the UK
By MARTYN HALLE
01:51, 7 October 2012 |
A student training to be one of the country’s few male midwives has been prevented from attending breastfeeding classes – because he is a man.
Chris Butt, 30, who is in the second year of a three-year training course, tried to attend breastfeeding classes run by the National Childbirth Trust (NCT) near his university. But since last summer he has been rebuffed several times by local branches that have refused to allow him to attend certain sessions after claiming some women are ‘sensitive’ to men being present.
Mr Butt, who is studying at Bournemouth University, has had the backing of his course tutor and the head of midwifery at the Royal Hampshire County Hospital in Winchester, where he is doing his on-the-job training and has delivered five babies on his own.
The Department of Health encourages women to breastfeed because of the health benefits, and midwives play a key role in educating new mothers. Britain has one of the lowest breastfeeding rates in the world. Even so, members of the NCT in Southampton objected to Mr Butt’s presence at the women-only class despite the fact he is a health professional – but said they would have no problem with a female midwife. The NCT said he was invited to attend more open classes in which the male partners of new mothers also attend.
But Mr Butt – one of only 132 male midwives out of 20,000 in the UK – has criticised the situation in an article for Midwives, the magazine of the Royal College of Midwives. ‘I didn’t believe for one minute that I would be turned away from breastfeeding groups,’ he wrote. ‘Do the facilitators of such clinics think I practise midwifery in some magical way where I don’t see intimate parts of women’s bodies? Do they think I stand behind a screen as a baby’s head is crowning, shouting out advice on when to breathe?’
Mr Butt originally agreed to expand on his comments in Midwives but said he had come ‘under pressure’ not to say anything further. The NCT denied it was against men attending breastfeeding groups. A spokesman said: ‘He wanted to attend a women-only session, where there were no break-out rooms available if the women attending felt uncomfortable with a male presence. ‘We also offered him the opportunity to attend an antenatal breastfeeding workshop.’ One breastfeeding counsellor in Southampton said: ‘Chris has to understand that some women are sensitive to a man’s presence.’
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